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We are Speaking For Ourselves
Speaking For Ourselves
No one else can do as well
Speaking For Ourselves

This was the chorus I heard as I reached for the ballroom doors, the voices within singing loud and proud. I was a little tired from getting up early and driving to this conference in Harrisburg, but the joy I felt at hearing a hundred fifty voices singing this anthem made me glad I’d decided to arrive early. As the lunchtime speaker, I wasn’t due for a few hours, but I wanted to be present for as much of the day as I could. This was not because the organization was kicking off its annual gathering with a rousing sing-along led by a guitar-wielding songwriter – something that might well happen at public events with a political twist just about every day. Nor was it because this group consisted of grown men and women with intellectual disabilities – a demographic with which I’ve been familiar since my sister Beth entered her own adult years.

It was because this was a conference of self-advocates: individuals with developmental disabilities who are using their voices to fight for their own civil rights.

The group continues to sing:
Once I was afraid to speak
I was lonely I was weak
With a voice so very small
That I had not voice at all

Then I found a friend like me
And another made us three
And we laughed and then we cried
And then this is what we tried

I first learned about the self-advocacy movement about nine years ago. Perhaps because I grew up in the civil rights era and admired Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., perhaps because of my sister, it always made sense to me that people with disabilities deserved respect and opportunity, the freedom not to be discriminated against, and the right to live outside the walls of institutions. When I reached middle age and had my awareness raised by joining my sister in her favorite pastime, riding city buses, I also came to embrace the idea of self-determination, which says that people with disabilities have the right to make their own choices about their own lives.

But until I learned about the self-advocate movement, I hadn’t recognized that individuals with disabilities could be their own Dr. King. They could form and run their own organizations in which they could advocate for themselves. Maybe they’d do so with a relative or friend at their side, maybe not. But they’d use their own voices – or, when necessary, assistive devices – to speak to legislators, educate the public, wage battles for employment, transportation, and funding, and fight for the permanent closing of institutions.

The national self-advocacy organization is SABE, which stands for Self-Advocates Becoming Empowered.

The organization on the other side of these ballroom doors is the major self-advocacy organization in Pennsylvania. It’s called Speaking For Ourselves.

And I step into the room as the song Speaking For Ourselves reaches its final verse.

We’ve been called by many names
We’ve been made to feel ashamed
We’ve been locked behind a door
But we’ll come outside once more

We are Speaking For Ourselves
Speaking For Ourselves
No one else can speak as well
Speaking For Ourselves
- Speaking For Ourselves, by Karl Williams

If you think that people with intellectual disabilities are, by definition, incapable of political engagement, you should have stood beside me for the next few hours. You would have mingled with these people, among others:

In 2010, Frank Yurick was voted co-President of Speaking For Ourselves. He’s run training programs for Speaking For Ourselves to help people find services, resist abusers, and speak up to enhance their quality of life. He also works for Liberty Resources as an attendant for a person with a disability.

Since 2006, Debbie Robinson has been the Executive Director of Speaking For Ourselves. Debbie once attended a White House meeting with President Bill Clinton, where she told him “When you give talks on TV, you don’t talk about disability issues. You need to bring this up more to the public. We need to hear your voice supporting us and the ADA.” The President said, “You are right. I need to do more on that.”

Sara Wolff is a motivational speaker who has given talks at schools, churches, and business and community organizations. Sara is a law clerk at O’Malley & Langan Law Offices who has organized a buddy walk, made a PSA video, been featured in such magazines as Allure, Glamour, Vogue, Self and Lucky, and serves on three boards. During the course of her work, she has met Barbara Walters, Meredith Viera, and Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson. She is also an aspiring writer who is interested in writing short stories.

Bill Krebs is working with Blue Fire Consulting on a project called Beyond Tokenism, which helps people with disabilities to be truly included on boards of advocacy organizations without being tokens. Bill sees board inclusion as being on a football field with the object of the game being to go from one end to the other getting through defense – and then to score. Bill isn’t afraid to speak what’s on his mind; that’s why his nickname is Trouble.

Jody Saitsky, a strong self-advocate, is Vice President of the Philadelphia chapter, and well-known for her cooking.

Marjorie Bungard is on the Board of Speakings For Ourselves. She is part of the planned advisory committee under the developmental programs, and was appointed by Deputy Kevin Casey. She also started the Mon Valley Chapter of Speaking For Ourselves over twenty years ago.

Karl Williams is the singer-songwriter who led the sing-along at the opening session. His compositions, two of which I’ve included here, are the soundtrack for the self-advocacy moment. He also wrote down the words of Roland Johnson, one of the pioneers of the self-advocacy movement, for Roland’s autobiography, Lost In A Desert World.

There were so many more people I wanted to meet. I wanted to hear their stories, find out about their advocacy work, and just spend time in their company. I also wanted to attend more sessions at the conference – there was so much about self-advocacy for me to learn!

But my sister Beth lives a few hours away, and I’d made a date to visit. We weren’t going to ride the buses; we were going to her favorite restaurant for her favorite ice-cream, mint chocolate chip, then back to her apartment to watch a favorite TV show, Family Feud, while engaging in one of her favorite activities: me scratching her back.

Beth has not gotten involved with the self-advocacy movement, but she certainly lives in a self-determined way.

So I had to leave the conference a few hours before it ended. But I left in high spirits, revved up by the commitment to social justice I’d seen all around me, and the sense that everyone – especially those who might never have been listened to before – deserves to be heard in this world.

And yes, not just by a sister.

But by a celebrity.

A business leader.

A president.

We will stand up for our rights
We will stand and tell what’s true
We will show the world
All that we can do
- People First, by Karl Williams